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Posted by donwilliss on February 1, 2009

What else? If you can manage it, get her friends to help. Only do this if you’re sure you won’t get caught. This works two ways: have them think highly of you, and lowly of her boyfriend, and that she should date men of your quality, and not his.

This process takes time, is fraught with peril, and is ethically questionable. Actually, it is much easier to forget about that girl and spend your time on women who are single. That’s nice in theory. However, in the real world I meet guys every day who know this is true, but still can’t get the “magical woman who has a boyfriend” out of their head. If you really want to go down this road, I have given you the map.

It happens a lot – you meet a great new girl, you guys click, but there is one problem…

She has a boyfriend.

You know you should move on. But you can’t get her out of your head. Don’t worry, if you really want her, there is a way. It’s underhanded, potentially unethical, and probably not the best course of action. Yet, I know the answer is wanted, because as a dating coach it comes up time and time again. “Kurt, how do I pick up a woman who already has a boyfriend?”

It’s simple. Separate them.

Enough idle chit chat. Let’s get down to business. First, you must become part of her life. Not an acquaintance, or some dude she works with. You must enter stealth mode. Find something you have in common, and establish a connection with her, with some underlying flirtation involved. This flirting must be subtle, not direct. Think of this as planting the seed.

Next, slowly begin to bring your conversation with her toward her relationship problems. You must work around the edges, slowly, until she reveals her problems to you. And she will reveal problems, because no relationship is problem free.

Here’s a better way: give her scenarios justifying her partner’s actions while making it clear you don’t behave the same way. For example, “While it’s not common for guys to do that, maybe he does it because…”. Usually, humans want to win arguments. You are setting up an argument with her, and for her to win it, she will have to convince you that her boyfriend is no good for her. This will also convince her, too.

So, let her win. After a good debate, agree that she is right. You’ve argued for her boyfriend’s qualities, and lost. She’s right and you’re wrong. And because you were arguing for her boyfriend, he is also wrong. Get it?

This works on another level, too. It allows you to stay undercover. No one will suspect you sabotaged the relationship. After all, you were sticking up for him. Diabolical. From talking with her about her relationship, you’ll know what she really wants. And you’ve created a void from what she wants and what she currently has. It’s time to fill that void. Slowly, start acting like the man she wants to have. If her boyfriend never gives her anything, casually give her gifts. If she is sexually frustrated, increase your flirting with her.

While this is happening, you also need to start making her jealous of you. For example, jealous of other women in your life. You must date other women, and make sure she knows about it. Even better — date women you know she doesn’t like. This does two things. First, it makes her wonder why you go out with women she dislikes, instead of women like her. That’s good. Second, it demonstrates you have attractive qualities, because other woman find you attractive.

Typically these problems revolve around money, sex, work and house work. These are the areas you want to bring up in conversation to see what she reveals. Often, when she brings up a minor problem, it’s really the surface of a deeper, touchier issue. For example, a small gripe about housework may actually be rooted in her problem that she feels her boyfriend is controlling the relationship.

What to do now? Blast her boyfriend? Not quite. First, slyly keep bringing these issues to the surface. This will constantly remind her of how unhappy she is. While you’re doing this, you must also keep flirting with her indirectly. Otherwise you’ll be her friend. Not wanted. Soon, she’ll start to openly complain about every bad aspect of her relationship. This is where you can really screw it up if you don’t know what you’re doing.

If you’re too agreeable with her, you’ll be thought of as a wussy in her eyes. It’ll be obvious you’re trying too hard to win her affection. And if you attack him, you’ll find she is likely to defend him, and this makes her concentrate on his good qualities.

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Women who are dissatisfied

Posted by donwilliss on January 30, 2009

Women who are dissatisfied with the sagging look of their breasts sometimes elect to get a breast lift. In order to understand how a breast lift works, it is important to first understand why a woman’s breasts tend to start sagging. The overall sagging effect sometimes does not start just with the onset of aging. Instead, it can also come along with weight gain and loss.

The shape of a woman is something that has been celebrated in art for centuries. Just like everything else, with age a woman’s shape changes. While some women are happy to naturally change, others do not like to see their body shape (mainly their breasts) loosening at all.

Basically, the procedure involves taking the muscles in the breast and surgically shortening the muscles to give the breasts a perkier look. While everyday women might elect to have this procedure done in order to obtain more youthful looking breasts, it is important to note that this kind of procedure is also done on women in the entertainment industry, whose careers are based on how they look.

Take, for example, the situation of a nursing mother. Her breasts will naturally start to sag with the extra milk, and once she stops breastfeeding, the breasts will not immediately return to normal. While bras are meant to provide a bit of a breast lift, some women encounter self esteem issues because of the appearance of their breasts, so that is a main component of why women might choose to get a breast lift.

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Being attentive is something that goes without saying

Posted by donwilliss on January 29, 2009

Being attentive is something that goes without saying. However, not all men understand exactly how to do this. When you are thinking about how to get a woman in love with you, always put her first. Listen to what she’s telling you and ask her questions about her life. Women want to be with a man who seems genuinely interested in them. Ask her what she likes and dislikes. Listen attentively when she’s talking about friends and family members. Call her during the day just to see how she is and let her know that she means the world to you. When a man dotes on a woman, she feels closer to him. She wants to feel as though she’s the most important person in the world to you, she ensure that she does.

The first thing to consider when you are thinking about how to get a woman in love with you is how genuine you are. It’s very easy for a guy to fall into the trap of putting on an act in order to impress a certain woman. Most men have been guilty of doing this at some point in their dating lives. They embellish their job or how successful they are because they think it will make them more appealing to women. Women are very insightful and can usually see through a charade like this in no time flat. If you want a woman to develop genuine deep seated feelings for you, you have to be honest with her. Don’t try and impress her, just be you. You’ll stand a much better chance of a real, meaningful relationship with her if you do this.

How to get a woman in love with you is a question many men want the answer to. You may have just recently started dating a woman that you believe is the one yet she doesn’t seem as crazy about you as you are about her. Perhaps you’ve yet to approach the woman of your dreams because you are worried about her rejecting you. Is it possible for a guy to influence what a woman feels about him? Is there more he can do than be charming and say all the right things? Yes, any man actually has the power to make a woman fall deeply in love with him.

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Be caring and kind

Posted by donwilliss on January 28, 2009

Be caring and kind- One of the major aspects of love is being caring and kind towards other people. You see not many people show a lot of care and kindness on the very first encounter. What you need to do is start caring for people and show them your kindness, Make them feel special and wanted. People like to be appreciated than judged and if you can be the person who would even appreciate a stranger you have just met rather than judge than you would instantly make them fall in love with you.

So what does it take to make a woman truly fall in love with you on the very first site? Well love is a very strong emotion and we only fall in love with people with whom we can form strong emotional connections. You see women would never fall in love with you unless you know how to form that great emotional connection and make them feel as if they already know you. Read on to discover some of the most incredible ways on how to make any woman love you instantly and achieve earth shattering results.

Get chatty- Your talks can move mountains if you know how to use your words right and similarly it can help you make women fall in love with you. You see it all starts with a conversation and ends with a feeling. Therefore your talks should be such which appeal to a girls emotions and she starts connecting with you strongly on an emotional level.

Be interested- Another thing you need to keep in mind is your level of interest in the other person. When you show active and genuine interest in the other person that person automatically reciprocates with the same reaction.

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He (She) have left you…

Posted by donwilliss on January 2, 2009

He (She) have left you…

The love leaves…

The life leaves…

As this feeling clearly many, much…

Even worse aware, that you have made everything to keep relations, but nothing is capable to return the past…

Head up!

Not all is lost!!!

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- Realise this plan quickly: the history says with each week, with each day and with each hour to return lover all more hard. Remember that within the limits of the plan ” How to get back with ex ” at your lover there is an emotional communication not only with you, but also with your relations. With each leaving instant, they will feel less emotional attachment to the relationship with you.

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